As the holiday season approaches, many churches face unique challenges in connecting with their congregation, especially online. With increased seasonal depression and grief, the role of online hosts becomes more vital than ever. In this episode of the Church Solutions Podcast, Phil Thompson and Steve Lacy discuss how online hosts can prepare for and handle tough situations while streaming services during the holidays. Here’s a summary of their insights and practical tips.
Understanding the Role of an Online Host
Online hosts are the digital equivalent of greeters, ushers, and pastors combined. They help foster a sense of community by interacting with viewers through chat, offering prayer, and providing resources. However, they may occasionally face challenging scenarios like disruptive behavior, grief, or even more serious issues like suicidal ideation.
While these situations are rare, being prepared is essential for creating a safe and supportive online environment.
Managing Disruptive Behavior
Disruptive participants can appear in your chat for various reasons—some may be joking, while others may harbor deeper frustrations or anger toward the church. Here’s how to handle such behavior:
- Assess the Intent:
- Are they being intentionally disruptive, or are they expressing genuine concerns?
- Approach them with patience to determine their motives.
- Take Appropriate Action:
- If the behavior involves profanity, bullying, or hate speech, mute or block them using your platform’s tools. For example, on StreamingChurch.tv, profanity filters and blocking options are readily available.
- If their behavior is off-topic but not harmful, engage them gently and redirect the conversation.
- Use Private Messaging:
- If possible, move the conversation to a private chat to address their concerns without disrupting others.
Responding to Suicidal Ideation
The holiday season can amplify feelings of hopelessness for some, and online hosts may encounter individuals expressing thoughts of suicide. Here’s how to respond:
- Recognize the Warning Signs:
- Statements like, “I just want to end it all” or “There’s no hope left” are red flags.
- Look for signs of a plan or access to means of self-harm (e.g., mentioning firearms or pills).
- Engage Privately:
- Initiate a private chat and listen empathetically without overwhelming the person.
- Avoid dismissive or overly corrective responses; instead, ask open-ended questions like, “How long have you been feeling this way?”
- Enlist Support:
- Notify a pastor or a trained counselor at your church for backup.
- Provide the individual with professional resources, such as the Suicide Hotline (988) or the Crisis Text Line (text 741741).
- Follow Up:
- Collect contact information (e.g., email or phone) for further support.
- Encourage them to connect with professional counseling services.
Supporting Individuals Experiencing Grief
Grief is another common struggle during the holidays. Whether from the loss of a loved one or other life challenges, many people seek solace in the church community. Here’s how you can help:
- Be a Listener:
- Avoid offering solutions or platitudes. Instead, say things like, “Tell me more” or “How does that make you feel?”
- Validate Their Feelings:
- Acknowledge their pain without trying to fix it. Sometimes, simply being present can make a big difference.
- Offer Resources:
- Share helpful scriptures, devotionals, or links to counseling services.
- If appropriate, suggest a follow-up conversation with a pastor or grief counselor.
Preparing Your Hosts for Success
To ensure your team is ready to handle these situations, consider the following steps:
- Training:
- Use resources like the Church Online Host Complete Guide by LifeChurch to equip your hosts with practical skills.
- Teach active listening techniques and how to respond empathetically.
- Resources:
- Provide access to professional counseling hotlines and contact details for church leaders who can assist in emergencies.
- Practice Scenarios:
- Role-play potential situations with your hosting team to build confidence and readiness.
Conclusion
While most online hosting experiences are positive and straightforward, preparing for difficult situations ensures your church can meet the needs of a hurting world. By listening, engaging with empathy, and pointing individuals toward helpful resources, you can make a lasting impact.
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Wishing you a meaningful holiday season,
Phil Thompson and Steve Lacy
Church Solutions Podcast
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